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i wish i could like comments here 😭🧎‍♀️‍➡️i promise i am not ignoring you, i just don’t know how to reply and liking comments is easier 🫶🏻

Redyed my hair let's GOOO

the unholy trinity of piss-poor caretakers, tag yourself:

tomboy, meaning "this child is clearly queer but let's hope it goes away"

sensitive, meaning "clearly neurodivergent and often distressed but let's keep going until they grow numb"

mature, meaning "traumatized but let's ignore that"

you the 3d

I will be back

Hello to all beautiful souls on Tumblr. Some of you may have seen my recent post on TikTok.

My husband and I have come to a decision.

We are going to shift, and restart.

Not because of anything bad that happened. We are very happy with where we are at in our lives. We have had the honour of raising a bunch of amazing kids, explore beautiful places.

But in the end, both he and I are shaped by our pasts and, 'original' realities a lot.

My husband doesn't know any different than having the responsibility and pressure of taking care of a lot of people. And although he loves it, we believe he would profit from getting to find himself without a million eyes on him for once. We don't doubt he'll still choose lives like this in the future, but we want it to stem out of desire, and not because it feels 'normal.'

As for me, my wellbeing and life in this reality have affected me a lot. I don't hate this place, but it has come with a lot of trauma, and I don't like viewing it as my starting point. I think the version of myself that I embody in this reality represents my true self the least.

We have decided to shift somewhere we truly are the person we are meant to be deep down. A reality where we can meet again for the first time, but physically. Where he doesn't have to come looking for me, and I don't have to go through a whole roller-coaster to actually be with him. We will wipe our memories, and live our lives there.

After a while, we'll remember our memories of shifting and other realities. At that point, however, that reality will be our home and original starting point, and any other place, including this one, will be a dr, that we might choose to come back to at some point.

We have infinite lives, infinite places to explore, and for now this feels like the right thing to do for us.

We don't know exactly when we are going to shift there yet, but probably within the next week or two. I will come back here, likely after a lot of time has passed for us, but for the people here it won't be long at all. And I assume I will continue posting advice, and have new stories to tell.

I don't know how much I might change by the time I come back, or how much time will have passed for me. My views on some things might be different, which is primarily why I'm writing this post.

The version of me in this reality also has to focus on his health a little, so my responses to asks or dms will probably be slow for a week or so. I will be back, and it won't be long for you people. But knowing personally I'll forget about all this for probably a few decades or more, I felt like writing some type of goodbye or gratitude. Not because I'm not coming back, but because I'm leaving a version of myself behind that I have outgrown.

I'll see you all! 💚

(Take this picture I took in honour of my drselves)

Click method (100% method to change mindset for anything)

I need to get something off.

Guys, do one thing, please, oh my god If you're reading this? Do this NOW.

Sit somewhere, like sit, just sit, and simply let your mind wander PLEASE TRUST ME AND DO IT, don't push it aside saying it's just a silly little other shit hell no I'm serious.

Let your thoughts take over, look at your past, reflect it, and let that one small realization snap in your mind hardcore.

You.

Literally.

Know.

The.

Secret.

To.

Your.

Life.

Oh my god isn't this what people think of? CAN'T YOU SEE? you got it, it's in Your hands so much, you're one minute away from it, one second, REALIZE you're actually getting whatever you want.

Just. Be. Goddamn. Persistent.

I swear this random ass method came up to me back in March where everything changed me for the best, I wanna call it the Click method, I don't know if there's anything similar, but god knows how it can help you.

Summary:

Sit somewhere

Let your mind wander

Look at yourself, your life, reflect your past your present, your future, every small detail on yourself, just everything

Now just sit there and wait for that realization to click and sit in being FULLY emerged deep and engraved in your mind, that after everything, "you are chosen."

Feel that? That bliss, that shock? That feeling that "what the fuck have I been doing so far? What the hell did I waste so much time for?"

This guys? This helped me snap my mindset, you don't need days to change the mindset, it's just the click of the realization, try it, seriously try it, and to actually trick your mind you've done it, I suggest tricking yourself (not necessary, but some people like to be logical and back it up with actions), simply tap a part of your body when you realize it, when that thought flows in your mind just as moments ago the thought of "I like the color xyz" had gone by.

It clicks.

Use it as any method, void, manifesting, revising, whatever the fuck you want, this just conjured up in my dream and I already feel how it can help people.

Some of shifters are little too normal over the fact they are shifters. You're LITERALLY a traveller that explores the multiverse. you go through different universes YALL ARE TOO NORMAL ABOUT THAT.

𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐟𝐟 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐫𝐬

because i need to see more dr stuff 💥💥

BASICS.

𖦹 - you in your dr (name, age, pronouns, looks, etc)

𖦹 - your friends

𖦹 - ships in your dr / inspo

𖦹 - relationships with other people (ex. friends/enemies/besties/dating)

𖦹 - ppl you have beef with and why

𖦹 - dr memes

𖦹 - your house

𖦹 - random things you’ve scripted that just make sense

𖦹 - pets

𖦹 - your family

𖦹 - whats in your bag

𖦹 - timeline of your dr

𖦹 - your recent text messages

DR SPECIFIC.

𖦹 - your powers (marvel, magic, etc.)

𖦹 - your house (harry potter) (your dormmates, house mates, what your house is, why you are this specific, more about it)

𖦹 - your cabin (percy jackson) (your siblings, what it looks like, why you choose it, powers)

𖦹 - your discography (fame/kpop)

𖦹 - what your trending tags are (fame/streamer)

𖦹 - profile pictures people would use of you (fame/kpop/streamer)

𖦹 - your stage outfits/award outfits/red carpet/met gala (fame/kpop)

𖦹 - missions you went on (marvel/cod)

𖦹 - cases you worked on (criminal minds)

𖦹 - face claims of your friends (marauders)

MOODBOARDS.

𖦹 - you (looks and/or your vibe)

𖦹 - your friends (them and/or what your relationship is like)

𖦹 - your s/o (them and/or what your relationship is like)

𖦹 - your family vibe (them and/or what your relationship is like)

𖦹 - your pets

𖦹 - the dr itself (media of it, the vibe of it)

𖦹 - your cabin (pjo)

𖦹 - your house (harry potter)

𖦹 - where you live/house

𖦹 - powers / inspo

Made the grave mistake of using a comment that had the word "shifting" as a search and looked in the comments if the nik video only to find an infuriating number of antis I blocked cuz wth...

Edit: ON TIK TOK NOT ON HERE I FORGOT