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Honestly I don't even really have aspec headcanons so much as I keep forgetting that not every character is aspec

need to aromanticise this fandom more

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Help please

Preferably someone who's aromatic and or Asexual THANKS

Okay okay

I know what both terms are yes yes

HOWEVER

I have no problem with writing and/or creating scenarios involving romance (or other things i will not discuss) just not for an extended periods

But I don't really care for those things to happen for me I just really want them if that makes sense?

So does that count towards to somewhere in the aroace spectrum???

I just wanna make sure...

Lilith redraw for aromantic awareness week :))

Original from last year ↓

I both love and hate when people don’t know about/don’t understand aromantism because if they’re super nice about it then I get to explain it to them! But if they say things like ‘oh, so you don’t love people?’ Or ‘so you’re gonna be alone/lonely forever?’ It’s infuriating because that’s not true!! Aromantic people do love! They just don’t feel romantic love like most people!

I like to think Kunikida is aroace or at the very least on that spectrum.

This is the hill I will passively sit on as I watch everyone else fight to their deaths.

OMG THIS LOOKS SO CUTE I LOVED IT

Ah, hey, first post here. My english is not soo good and I'm brazilian btw, but, i have something to share with you 🫵

This is a version of the aromantic flag made by me, honestly i don't like so much the green, gray and black one, so i made this, i tried to post on reddit but I think it don't worked out as well as I expected. Well, here we go

The isolated flag if you want it

Serious question and just to know :

Is there a country where arocace people can feel safe, are not discriminated against and are protected ?? Especially a law that protects us or etc ?

I know that anglophone aroace people talk about Denmark because there are apparently a lot of people on the aro and ace spectrums.

Just asking cause I'm fck tired of allo society every day since many years now and also tired of all arophobia et acephobia on social media in the first place. 💀

And in my sh*tty country it's always "lgbT", hOMo, bI and transgender. WHAT ABOUT THE D*MN + ??????? ALWAYS ABOUT ALLOS PP FCK DAMMIT. 💀

(Of course : generality =/= globality !!!! Cause I don't hate all allos pp obviously. Some are decents, respectfull , share same values as mine and infinity open mind.)

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My mood :

Second gif is for allos bigots, allo society and all their fck pathetic and disgusting sh*ts.

I hate you infinitely.

I had the reflection not long ago of why I was uncomfortable at school (regardless of grade level) apart from stress because of the oral to pass and being an introverted person :

Being aroace and have to stay stuck a whole damn day surrounded by allos pp horny asf and who will not understand me, who tell me about their s€x life (at what point do you think it’s fckin normal to talk about it as if it was a banal and interesting subject ?? Wtf ???💀) without taking into account whether it made me uncomfortable or not (I think they didn’t give a shit because it didn’t come to their mind, those dumbass...).

Being surrounded by queer pp but none of them had defended me when I had received acephobia from a straight guy one day and only watched the scene without saying anything. The fact that most of them with whom I hung out invisibilized or even forgot my aromantism by remembering only my asexuality (bitches I'm aroace dammit. I’m both. Not one or the other !) and couldn't remember or didn't know the definition of being aro or ace.

But the worst I would say is that by dint of receiving arophobia and acephobia in about twenty years in the face, as an angry person by nature and who doesn't appreciate disrespectful pp etc, I became allophobe...

But let’s be clear : I don’t hate all allos pp ! Even if I speak in general, be aware that : generality =/= globality !

I know that some of them are decent, respectful and open-minded and these are the pp I appreciate ! Unfortunately, I have never met someone like that before. Maybe one day...

So to return to the subject :

Am I the only aroace person to be uncomfortable at school ??

It's a bit rough sorry and sorty again if my english is bad, it's not my native language but I hope you will understand the essential !

Once I saw a comment on a instagram post about the ace, aro spectrums that said approximately :

"For me, all characters in any fictional universe are aroace until they show romantic and/or sexual attraction and I headcanon them as aroace/are part of both spectrums."

AND I AGREE WITH THIS PERSON IT'S SO OBVIOUS !

You don't have to have everything figured out right away, there's no deadline on understanding your identity or knowing what labels are/aren't right for you.

can we get aro books with people who arent sad at all actually about not having crushes or being aro thatd be great

Aroace culture is seeing people talk about how hot your favourite character is, and feeling deeply uncomfortable. And feeling even more uncomfortable when you see antis claim that you love the character only because they are sexy, while in reality it's because you see yourself a lot in them.

Do you ever forget that people actually feel the way books describe romantic love? Like those aren't made up feelings? Because me too

I want someone to be affectionate with, without the stress of 'oh do they think of me in a romantic way'